This new commitment involves traveling to the Neighboring Cities (southwest of the Tri-cities) mornings and evenings for two-hour practices each time (up to seven or eight practices per week). This would not be such an inconvenience if L could just drive by herself to some of them, but we need to take along a fellow swimmer (because it is the right thing to do and when you do the right thing, it is not always convenient). Legally, and for several more months, L cannot take passengers without a parent in the vehicle and the other swimmer does not have a license. So whether L drives or I drive, it is irrelevant. I will need to go along. Hopefully, the other swimmer's mother can drive once in a while.
I have experience at this kind of thing--driving to practices, keeping myself occupied for two hours, driving home--although in the past it has been just once per day. There are only so many things to do in the Neighboring Cities when one is without money :o/ and only so many things one can take along to do away from home. I also felt much more comfortable catching a nap last winter under cover of darkness, than napping in broad summer daylight (not to mention the dangers of sleeping in a vehicle in 100+ degree heat). And there are no things that just take care of themselves at home when I am away. Zero, zip, nada.
However, these are the things mothers do sometimes, and even want to do, to help their children when these activities mean a lot to their children. I am not a stage mother. I do not care if L is an Olympic swimmer. Swimming isn't even the point. I care about helping her, particularly when she works so diligently. There is a window of opportunity for this type of thing; it is called "youth," and that window is now. Other things will just have to give and we will need to make it work.
And L and I will have some sweet times together.
