Saturday, September 17, 2011

Calm Before the Storm


This weekend is the lull before the storm.  Although L started year-round swim a few months ago, she was just practicing with them, not competing with them.  She was on the city swim team here in the Tri-cities and was competing there.  Both year-round and city swim at once.  


The city team ended last month.  So she will swim competitively with the year-round team now.  Additionally, on Monday, high school swim team starts.  Both high school and year-round at once.


The year-round meet that was on the calendar for today was rescheduled.  I'm sitting here thinking how calm this Saturday feels--no practices, no meets, and actually, no other obligations that made it on my calendar.  I can barely relax to enjoy it, because I am psychologically gearing up for the next four months of early practices, getting up at 3:50 a.m., and this year, there will be practices after school on certain days, and practices on Saturdays.  This year, I will be working my part time job and cannot drive on my work days. I have yet to cobble together a carpool.  I am also in charge of a swim fund-raiser starting next week.


All of this swimming stuff going on in my life and my best-kept secret is I really can't swim, at least I cannot swim any of the official strokes. Shhh. Don't tell. 


As a kid,  I invented my own stroke, a kind of dog-paddle/freestyle stroke that I am sticking with.  It gets me around the pool without getting my hair very wet, it keeps me from drowning, and I can see where I am going while I am swimming  (remember I have really poor vision without my glasses).  :o)  


At least I do know how to drive and am licensed; I own a van; I am a good sport; I enjoy the kids; I can wake up when the alarm goes off; I can entertain myself hours on end; I like popular music (which the kids always like to have on in the van); and I love L.  These are the important qualifications for me to be a swim mom and let's face it, cheering from the deck is about as close to the water as I get anyway.

Thursday, September 15, 2011

We think things will last . . .

"We have a tendency to believe 
good things will last forever. 
It is in our nature. 
The Beatles, for example.  
Oh, they'll be around forever.
The Sopranos--
that show will always be on the air.  
Philip Roth's Zuckerman series. 
Springsteen concerts. 
Good things are rare.
They are to be cherished 
because they always leave us 
too soon.

* * * 
[It is] our tendency 
to think good things 
will last forever.  
They don't. 
We think that 
we will always be young, 
that the 
moments 
and 
people 
we cherish 
are everlasting.  
But they're not."

Harlan Coben, Live Wire, 15, 354.

Sunday, September 11, 2011

A new great-nephew

Welcome on 9.11.11, to my new great-nephew J, son of JM and SM!